Personal Belongings Engagement
The Minnesota Department of Children, Youth, and Families (DCYF) wants to engage individuals and communities on the process of handling adoption personal belongings. The purpose of this engagement project is to seek feedback from community members about access and handling of personal belongings. The department will be speaking with adopted individuals, adoptive parents and kinship caregivers, birth parents, other relatives and interested individuals through quarterly engagement sessions and smaller work groups.
What is an adoption personal belonging?
A personal belonging, sometimes referred to as a personal effect, is an item that was given to the child-placing agency for the adopteeContinue reading
The Minnesota Department of Children, Youth, and Families (DCYF) wants to engage individuals and communities on the process of handling adoption personal belongings. The purpose of this engagement project is to seek feedback from community members about access and handling of personal belongings. The department will be speaking with adopted individuals, adoptive parents and kinship caregivers, birth parents, other relatives and interested individuals through quarterly engagement sessions and smaller work groups.
What is an adoption personal belonging?
A personal belonging, sometimes referred to as a personal effect, is an item that was given to the child-placing agency for the adoptee or birth parent; it is not a form or document related to the adoption. Examples include photographs, letters, family heirlooms, keepsakes and/or documents unrelated to the adoption.
How did the Department of Children, Youth, and Families and child-placing agencies come to possess these items?
- Contact and reunion services. DCYF has had many roles in the placement of children for adoption; some of the items may have been given directly to DCYF from adoptees, birth parents, social workers or other relatives.
- Other items may have come to DCYF from private agencies that closed.
About privacy on this site
Please do not share full names, or other information that would make people or agencies identifiable in your public comments. If you have feedback you want to provide that contains your name or names a county, Tribe or agency, please email us privately at Crystal.Graves@state.mn.us or Betsy.Hodek@state.mn.us.
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Recap of Engagement Session #2 - 1/16/2025
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To begin a PowerPoint slide prompted attendees to select one of five workgroups for breakout sessions. The five workgroup choices were:
- Examine current policy/process for accessing adoption records and personal belongings. What is a personal belonging?
- Examine how the state should handle personal belongings when at least one member of the adoption was identified as Native American/Alaskan Native/Indian/First Nations.
- Examine alternative processes. How are other states or agencies handling personal belongings?
- Community outreach, public awareness, and post-adoption resources available to adoptees and birth parents.
- Examine ways to increase BIPOC community awareness of and access to personal belongings.
Attendees were asked to add their names and chosen workgroup in the chat. The meeting began with a recap of the 9/18/2024 session, covering:
- Adoption/Post Adoption Resources
- Roles of DCYF and Foster Adopt MN
- Post adoption search services
- DCYF’s definition of adoption personal belongings
The new Personal Belongings Engagement site was introduced, with a link for attendees to follow along. Key features, such as subscribing for updates and finding session dates, were highlighted. Attendees were encouraged to share the site.
DCYF then polled attendees for preferred times for future quarterly sessions. The options were:
- 3rd Tuesday from 4:00-5:30 pm
- 3rd Wednesday from 12:00-1:30 pm
- 3rd Wednesday from 4:00-5:30 pm
- 3rd Thursday from 4:00-5:30 pm
Option 2 (3rd Wednesday, noon) received the most votes, with options 1 and 4 as close seconds.
Participants were placed into breakout rooms based on their preferred workgroup. DCYF staff accommodated first choices, when possible, but some were placed in second choices due to group size. During the 20-25 minute breakout, groups discussed topics and optional questions, with each group asked to select a note-taker, reporter, and to schedule their next meeting. Before the breakouts, DCYF provided examples of personal belongings scenarios.
Workgroup topics:
- Current policy and process to access adoption records and personal belongings
- Handling personal belongings in Native American/Alaskan Native/Indian/First Nations adoptions
- Alternative processes in other states/agencies
- Post-adoption community outreach and resources
Key Discussion Points:
- Native American personal belongings should be handled separately, with a healing ceremony guided by spiritual leaders before the process begins.
- A dedicated group should return Native American personal belongings with support, resources and counseling
- Consult national organization for repatriation guidance.
- Post-adoption funding should be made available for individuals accessing personal belongings for support and healing.
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Resources
Share Resources on Facebook Share Resources on Twitter Share Resources on Linkedin Email Resources linkFoster Adopt Minnesota
Visit Foster Adopt Minnesota for essential resources and support in foster care and adoption:
- Minnesota Support Group for Searching: Connect with others on the adoption journey.
- Resources for Intercountry Adoption: Comprehensive guidance for international adoptions.
- DNA Testing: Reliable genetic testing services.
- Minnesota Statutes: Up-to-date legal information on foster care and adoption.
- Minnesota Support Group for Searching
- Post Search Information: Unsure of the adoption agency or county? Use the Foster Adopt Minnesota Search Form to find the placing agency and district court that finalized the adoption.
Center for Adoption Support and Education
The Center for Adoption Support and Education provides essential resources and guidance to help adoptive families navigate the search and reunion process. Our comprehensive support includes expert advice, practical tools, and emotional assistance to ensure meaningful and successful connections between adoptees and their birth families.
Support Groups
Listing of support groups
Many child-placing agencies offer support groups as part of their post-adoption services to help families navigate their journey. Additionally, Foster Adopt MN features a comprehensive listing of support groups, providing opportunities to connect with others and receive ongoing assistance.
Support group for adult adoptees
AdopteesMN is a peer support group for adult adoptees (age 18 and older). While each person’s identity, interests, and stories are unique, all members share the common experience of being adopted. Join AdopteesMN to connect, share, and receive support from others who understand your journey. Contact adopteesmn@gmail.com for more information.
Concerned United Birthparents (CUB)
CUB is a monthly support group for birth family members and adult adoptees. Join us to share experiences, seek guidance, and connect with others who understand the unique challenges and joys of birth family relationships and adoption.
Bellis Support Group
Bellis hosts weekly gatherings for mothers who have experienced the termination or transfer of parental rights, or similar circumstances. These groups support women for whom the legal determination is final, providing a safe space to share experiences and connect with others facing similar challenges.
HELP Program
Contact Information
- Email: help@fosteradoptmn.org
- Toll-Free: 1-855-670-HELP
- Phone: 612-746-5137
Overview
The HELP Program offers free services to Minnesota adoptive, kinship, and foster families; adopted individuals; birth family members; and community professionals.
Services Include
Support: Phone and email assistance from HELP Specialists trained in supporting adoptive, foster, and kinship families.
Connections: Linking families with adoption, trauma, and attachment-competent therapists, as well as appropriate community resources and educational programs.
Funding Assistance: Helping eligible families cover therapy costs with vetted therapists, access Foster Adopt Minnesota educational offerings, and obtain other eligible supports.
Visit the HELP Program to receive comprehensive support tailored to your family's needs.
Finding Adoption Competent Therapist
Foster Adopt MN Therapist Services
Explore our directory of Foster Adopt MN-vetted therapists using the Therapist Search Tool. You can filter therapists by:
- Practice Location
- Insurers Accepted
- Treatment Modalities
- Areas of Practice
- Client Demographics
- Completed PACC
If you need further assistance, our HELP Program Specialists are available to provide personalized referrals and support at no cost. Contact the HELP Program:
- Email: help@fosteradoptmn.org
- Phone: 612-746-5137
- Toll-Free: 1-855-670-HELP
Visit Foster Adopt MN Therapist Services today to find the support you need.
PACC Program
The Permanency and Adoption Competency Certificate (PACC) Program is a cohort-based training designed to enhance permanency and adoption competence for professionals working in child welfare and mental health settings. This program equips participants with the skills and knowledge needed to support families and children effectively, ensuring lasting permanency and successful adoptions.
Find therapists who are fluent in adoption and permanency by using our Therapist Search Tool. You can filter therapists based on their completion of the PACC program to ensure they have specialized expertise in adoption and permanency issues.
Minnesota Department of Health
Information about accessing original birth records, and the new Birth Parent Contact preference form, is available on the Minnesota Department Health website
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Why are we engaging the community about personal adoption belongings?
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We aim to create a community-centered, community-led system change. We don't have all the answers and need your input to move forward. This may lead to legislative proposals or procedural changes.
Change will take time and effort, and we ask for your patience as we tackle difficult topics.
We believe communities should drive this process. Other states have approached this issue in different ways, and we look to them for guidance.
We plan to form small workgroups focused on specific policies and procedures for handling personal belongings. Topics for discussion will include who should have access to these items and whether DCYF should continue its current process or adopt a more proactive approach, like New York or Illinois, where centralized locations provide records and personal belongings.
Our plan includes quarterly larger workgroup meetings for updates, along with smaller, more frequent subgroup meetings focused on specific topics.
Engagement Sessions:
Initial Session: September 18, 2024
2nd Session: January 16, 2025 (4:00-5:30 p.m., virtual) – In this meeting, we will focus on forming the workgroups and confirming their main topics.
Workgroups will meet monthly or as agreed, and quarterly meetings will continue to provide updates on progress.
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MPR article, Personal Histories, items can be claimed by adult adoptees from Minnesota's DHS (now DCYF) files, written by Melissa Olson.
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Initial Personal Belongings Engagement Session, September 19, 2024
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Who's Listening
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Grants Manager
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Permanency Records Specialist
Email betsy.hodek@state.mn.us
Key Dates
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September 18 2024
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January 16 2025
FAQs
- Who contributed to the personal belongings collection, and how did the items end up there?
- How long has DHS/DCYF been inventorying personal belongings, and how far back does the collection go?
- What is the most recent submission?
- What kinds of items are included?
- How large is the collection?
- How are the personal belongings stored?
- Where else might personal belongings be?
- What percentage of files contain personal belongings from Native families?
- How can adoptees find out if they have personal belongings on file, and how can they request them?
- Why does DCYF want to engage with the adoption community about personal belongings?